Showing posts with label maid of honor speeches. Show all posts
Showing posts with label maid of honor speeches. Show all posts

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Ideas For Meaningful Maid of Honor Speeches


Giving maid of honor speeches can be scary and a little nerve wracking but there are ways to make it a bit easier. I suggest to anyone who has the job of giving a maid of honor speech is to sit and think about your relationship with the bride before you start writing anything.

Being the bride's sister or best friend, you might be asked to play the role of the maid of honor. In that case giving a speech would be one of your key duties. So, once you know your sister (or friend) is getting married soon enough you would anticipate that you might need to give a speech as the bride's sister long before you're even asked.

Most of the times there is a fairly long history between the bride and the maid of honor and maid of honor speeches should be written around it. Think about some of the funniest times you have shared. Also try to recall times that were sentimental or meaningful. Jot these ideas down and start putting them into paragraph form. Be sure to consider the audience as well. Some things, even though they might be very funny, wouldn't be considered appropriate to talk about in front of the bride's grandmother.

It's also nice idea to add something about the groom in your speech. If you feel nervous speaking in front of a crowd, just focus in on the bride and give the speech as if it's just the two of you in the room. Delivering the maid of honor speech is in fact an honor. Just relax and be thankful for the chance to say those special words to your friend on her big day.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Wedding Speeches – The Speakers’ Responsibilities

Since wedding speeches are part of the wedding reception or the wedding ceremony in the broad sense, it is very important that this tradition is carried out in a way that is in harmony with the spirit of the wedding. Every person who intends or is required to give a wedding speech should realize that his or her wedding speech could liven up or somewhat ruin the wedding reception. Obviously nobody would want to dampen the spirit by presenting a dull, boring wedding speech but unfortunately some of them will still end up doing that precisely.

If you are one of those who have to give a wedding speech at a wedding reception it's your responsibility to prepare for the speech and try your best to produce the most wonderful wedding speech that everybody will remember for a log time. If you are the father of the bride or the groom it's your duty to greet the guests and thank every person involved in the wedding through your wedding speech. But people will appreciate more if you could do that in a more passionate way. They are going to love it. Similarly if you are the best man or the maid of honor, it's your responsibility to say something that would make the audience cheer - imagine how happy and proud the groom and bride will be thinking that they have picked the right people. You just can't let them down simply because you love to procrastinate and didn't bother to prepare for the speeches.

If you are still wondering how to get started with the preparation for your wedding speech, don't worry. Since you are reading this blog post, it means that you are already on your way. However, you have to read, do some research and take notes, and believe me, it's a lot easier than it actually sounds. This blog will show you how to do that exactly.

By the way, if you are in a hurry, you can check the wedding speech sites listed below for quick help.